{"id":10204,"date":"2016-03-24T15:15:50","date_gmt":"2016-03-24T22:15:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sashacarrion.com\/?p=10204"},"modified":"2022-06-15T09:22:13","modified_gmt":"2022-06-15T16:22:13","slug":"adult-children-manipulative-abusive-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/2016\/03\/24\/adult-children-manipulative-abusive-parents\/","title":{"rendered":"Hijos Adultos de Padres Manipuladores e Abusivos"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/p>\n<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><iframe title=\"Padres Disfuncionales y Abusivos: Nunca Cambiaran\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ak21kvEVo7Q?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEres el hijo adulto de un padre que a menudo manipula y abusa de ti? \u00bfSientes que hagas lo que hagas no es lo suficiente para tener el amor y aprobaci\u00f3n de tu madre o padre? Si es as\u00ed, no est\u00e1s solo.  Uno pensaria que uno podria contar con el amor y apoyo de sus padres, pero por desgracia muchos hemos nacido de personas disfuncionales.  En situaciones como esta, le explico a la gente que una de las grandes verdades que he aprendido en la vida es que no se puede cambiar a nadie. La gente s\u00f3lo cambia cuando quiere. Incluso en una relaci\u00f3n que est\u00e1 en espiral hacia abajo, una persona puede hacer temporalmente los cambios que su pareja est\u00e1 solicitando, pero si no son realmente serios, no va a durar.<\/p>\n<p>La verdad es que no se puede obligar a nadie a cambiar. En todo caso, intentarlo s\u00f3lo crear\u00e1 resentimiento. El verdadero cambio debe venir desde adentro. En situaciones en las que constantemente est\u00e1s siendo defraudado y dolido, t\u00fa necesitas decidir lo que vas a hacer al respecto. Date cuenta de que no puedes cambiar a otras personas, pero siempre se puede tomar el control de tu propia vida, haciendo lo que es correcto para ti sea lo que sea.<\/p>\n<p>A menos que t\u00fa est\u00e9s cuidando a un ni\u00f1o peque\u00f1o, no eres responsable de nadie m\u00e1s que de ti. Nadie puede hacer para que lo que no permite que ellos hagan a ti. Si te mantienes permiti\u00e9ndote ser abusado, entonces esa es la forma que siempre vas a vivir porque la otra persona ya est\u00e1 acostumbrada a salirse con la suya. T\u00fa puedes anticipar m\u00e1s del mismo comportamiento.<\/p>\n<p>Esto realmente es una cuesti\u00f3n de respeto a ti mismo y ser due\u00f1o de tu propia vida. No te instales en el papel de v\u00edctima, sinti\u00e9ndote atrapado y sin esperanzas, sobre todo cuando se tiene tanta vida por vivir. No cuando la vida es tan valiosa.<\/p>\n<p>Haz lo que sea necesario para garantizar t\u00fa bienestar, ya sea estableciendo l\u00edmites o incluso manteniendo distancia. Recuerda, la \u00fanica persona responsable de de ti eres t\u00fa.  Es tu deber cuidarte muy bien a ti mismo, a pesar de que la gente que te debi\u00f3 haber cuidado, no lo hizo.  <\/p>\n<p>Como dijo una vez Gandhi: \u201cS\u00e9 el cambio que deseas ver en el mundo.\u201d Lleva tu enfoque hacia a tu interior. Tu felicidad es lo que m\u00e1s importa.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Are you the adult child of a parent who often manipulates and abuses you? Do you feel like regardless of what you do it&#8217;s never good enough? If so, you&#8217;re not alone. You would think parents would be loving and supportive but there are plenty of people who have unfortunately been born to dysfunctional [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"default","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[218,30,33,41,472],"tags":[728,718,3647,727,5120,725,5121,5122,5123,5124,724,726],"class_list":["post-10204","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-anger-hurt-pain","category-hypnosis","category-motivation","category-self-confidence-self-esteem","category-trauma","tag-abusive-parents","tag-abusive-relationships","tag-abuso","tag-adult-children-of-abusive-parents","tag-madre-manipuladora","tag-manipulative-parents","tag-no-se-puede-cambiar-a-nadie","tag-padres-abusivos","tag-padres-manipuladores","tag-tu-eres-responsable","tag-you-cant-change-anybody","tag-you-cant-change-anyone"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10204","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10204"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10204\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":28685,"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10204\/revisions\/28685"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10204"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10204"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10204"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}