{"id":13952,"date":"2018-05-24T05:42:03","date_gmt":"2018-05-24T12:42:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sashacarrion.com\/?p=13952"},"modified":"2022-05-12T19:32:53","modified_gmt":"2022-05-13T02:32:53","slug":"why-you-shouldnt-let-other-peoples-comments-and-behaviours-hurt-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/2018\/05\/24\/why-you-shouldnt-let-other-peoples-comments-and-behaviours-hurt-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Por Que No Debes Dejar Que te Afecten los Comentarios y el Comportamiento de la Gente"},"content":{"rendered":"<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><iframe title=\"Por Que No Debes Dejar Que te Afecten los Comentarios y el Comportamiento de la Gente\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/kujFC9jvdrg?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Por Que No Debes Dejar Que te Afecten los Comentarios y el Comportamiento de la Gente<\/p>\n<p>Hola chicos, \u00bfalguna vez se han encontrado en una situaci\u00f3n en la que alguien los ha lastimado al decir o hacer algo tan malo que realmente los ha molestado? Bueno, el entrenamiento de hoy tratar\u00e1 sobre este tema y transmitir\u00e1 mi punto de vista.<\/p>\n<p>Te contar\u00e9 una historia, hace a\u00f1os tuve una mujer que vino porque estaba sufriendo de ansiedad severa y ataques de p\u00e1nico. Trabajaba en un trabajo que era muy codiciado y ella era alguien que pensaba por s\u00ed misma, muy buena en su trabajo. Lo que sucedi\u00f3 fue que su jefe hab\u00eda comenzado a hablarle de una manera muy degradante y condescendiente de forma que realmente le hac\u00eda perder la autoestima y la confianza en s\u00ed misma, y as\u00ed fue, estaba tan afectada por ello que se encontr\u00f3 cometiendo errores b\u00e1sicos, nunca habr\u00eda cometido esos errores y por eso se puso tan mal que me estaba diciendo que estaba pensando en dejar el trabajo. Imagina que este es un trabajo con un gran sueldo y uno que no encuentras tan a menudo, as\u00ed que fue un gran problema para ella, as\u00ed que ese d\u00eda la escuch\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Tom\u00e9 mis notas e hice su sesi\u00f3n, hacia el final de la semana, un cliente vino y me estaba hablando sobre su negocio, unas cuantas veces lo mencion\u00f3 y en un momento le pregunt\u00e9 d\u00f3nde estaba su negocio y \u00e9l dijo, oh, sabes que est\u00e1 justo aqu\u00ed en tal y tal calle, as\u00ed que le ped\u00ed que esperara qu\u00e9 clase de trabajo haces y cuando me dijo que me di cuenta de que ten\u00eda a su jefe en mi silla. \u00bfCu\u00e1les son las posibilidades de que eso ocurra? y tampoco sab\u00eda ella que este tipo ten\u00eda un gran problema con la coca\u00edna.\nAs\u00ed que aqu\u00ed estaba ella, pensando que la odiaba absolutamente y sin embargo, el verdadero problema eran los problemas que estaba enfrentando y que ella estaba personalizando cuando en realidad ese tipo ni siquiera estaba pensando en ella porque estaba solo en su propio mundo, solo tratando de mantenerse a flote.\nEste es un buen ejemplo de por qu\u00e9 cuando alguien es grosero contigo de alguna forma, no podemos personalizar esos problemas porque esos problemas realmente no tienen nada que ver contigo, tiene todo que ver con esa persona que hacen que se comporte de la manera en la que lo hace.<\/p>\n<p>Bueno, espero que hayan disfrutado de esta peque\u00f1a historia. Espero que tengan un d\u00eda maravilloso y espero volver a conversar pronto contigo.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Why You Shouldn\u2019t Let Other People\u2019s Comments and Behaviours Hurt You Hey guys have you ever found yourself in a situation where somebody has hurt you by saying or doing something so badly that it&#8217;s really it&#8217;s really messed with you well today today&#8217;s coaching is gonna be on this topic and to convey 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