{"id":14019,"date":"2018-07-06T09:19:26","date_gmt":"2018-07-06T16:19:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sashacarrion.com\/?p=14019"},"modified":"2022-05-11T09:16:37","modified_gmt":"2022-05-11T16:16:37","slug":"dont-expect-anything-from-anyone-a-success-mindset","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/2018\/07\/06\/dont-expect-anything-from-anyone-a-success-mindset\/","title":{"rendered":"No Esperes Nada de Nadie: La Mentalidad Exitosa"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/p>\n<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><iframe title=\"No Esperes Nada de Nadie: La Mentalidad Exitosa\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/N4armL4zBnM?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>No Esperes Nada de Nadie: La Mentalidad Exitosa<\/p>\n<p>Como adulto, uno de los modos de pensar m\u00e1s desfavorables que puede tener es el de esperar cosas de otras personas \u2026 de responsabilizar a otras personas de tu bienestar. Es a\u00fan peor si lo que est\u00e1s esperando es algo que es muy importante para tu bienestar o futuro. Es una trampa ya que las personas pueden fallar y equivocarse, pueden ver las cosas de manera muy diferente y tambi\u00e9n tienen vidas muy ocupadas a las que deben atender.<\/p>\n<p>A veces escucho a mis clientes lamentarse de c\u00f3mo todos les han decepcionado. Muchas veces, esos sentimientos de desilusi\u00f3n pueden haber comenzado en su infancia con su madre o padre, a veces incluso con ambos. A pesar de que ahora la persona es adulta, siguen poni\u00e9ndose en situaciones en las que han hecho a otras personas responsables de sus vidas porque a\u00fan est\u00e1n tratando de obtener lo que no adquirieron cuando eran ni\u00f1os. Otras veces, la persona puede haber provenido de un entorno privilegiado en el que se les dio todo. Esto podr\u00eda incluso haber continuado en sus primeros a\u00f1os de adulto, as\u00ed que siguen esperando m\u00e1s de lo mismo, aunque las cosas ahora sean diferentes. Independientemente de esto, esperar que los dem\u00e1s te cuiden es un gran error porque te predispone a fracasar en m\u00faltiples niveles.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca alcanzar\u00e1s tu m\u00e1ximo potencial si dependes de alguien m\u00e1s. Por supuesto, la manera f\u00e1cil es siempre la m\u00e1s atractiva, pero tambi\u00e9n es la forma de vida menos satisfactoria y m\u00e1s arriesgada. Mientras m\u00e1s puedas confiar en ti mismo, mejor estar\u00e1s. Incluso si no tienes todos los recursos que necesites, desarrolla recursos y s\u00e9 capaz de depender de t\u00ed mismo teniendo la mentalidad adecuada, porque de una manera u de otra, lo resolver\u00e1s. Y si alguien te decepciona, ten la actitud de que ahora sabes que no puedes depender de esa persona y sigue adelante. Te siempre en cuenta que si eres un adulto, la realidad es que nadie te debe nada. No tu madre, ni tu padre, ni tu pareja \u2026 nadie. Cuanto antes dejes de culpar a los dem\u00e1s por tu vida y comiences a recuperar el control, mejor te ir\u00e1. La realidad es a todos nos ocurren cosas malas, es lo que hacemos en estas situaciones lo que importa.<\/p>\n<p>Con la excepci\u00f3n de los menores de edad, cada persona debe tener la actitud de que la \u00fanica persona responsable de ellos son ellos. Ten esta actitud y te encontrar\u00e1s en un lugar mucho m\u00e1s empoderado sabiendo que puedes confiar en ti mismo.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Don&#8217;t Expect Anything From Anyone: A Success Mindset As an adult, one of the most disempowering mindsets that you can have is that of expecting things from other people\u2026 of making other people responsible for your well-being. It\u2019s even worse if what you are expecting is something that is really important for your well-being 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