{"id":14217,"date":"2018-11-11T09:30:57","date_gmt":"2018-11-11T17:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sashacarrion.com\/?p=14217"},"modified":"2022-05-09T07:10:43","modified_gmt":"2022-05-09T14:10:43","slug":"is-there-such-a-thing-as-being-too-nice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/2018\/11\/11\/is-there-such-a-thing-as-being-too-nice\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfEres demasiado bueno?"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/p>\n<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><iframe title=\"\u00bfEres Demasiado Bueno?\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/6VgSF6y5-10?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00bfEres demasiado bueno?<\/p>\n<p>Eres tan bueno\u2026 tan noble... que las personas de aprovechan de ello? O como se dir\u00eda en M\u00e9xico que das la mano y te agarran la pata...\nEsto pasa cuando eres tan complaciente, paciente, generoso y comprensivo como para terminar lastimado en una mala situaci\u00f3n. \n\nEspecialmente si tienes la tendencia de ser complaciente hasta el extremo de que te hace sufrir, debes abordar el problema.\u2028Es importante pensar, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 sucedi\u00f3 esto? Y si ha sucedido antes, \u00bfpor qu\u00e9 sigue sucediendo? Podr\u00eda ser por una variedad de razones diferentes ...  tal vez incluso una combinaci\u00f3n de algunas como:\u2028La necesidad o el deseo de aprobaci\u00f3n de los dem\u00e1s o un patr\u00f3n aprendido de poner a los dem\u00e1s primero ante ti. Ambos pueden estar vinculados a los mecanismos de supervivencia que aprendiste de ni\u00f1o para poder afrontar cualquier situaci\u00f3n negativa que sucedio en tu vida entonces.\u2028\u2028De cualquier manera, todo se remonta a los conceptos b\u00e1sicos del amor propio. Muchas veces no nos damos cuenta de que al enfocarnos en los deseos y necesidades de los dem\u00e1s, podemos terminar no solo no honr\u00e1ndonos a nosotros mismos, sino que podemos poner reforzar un comportamiento negativo en otros. Y lo que es peor es que esa otra persona podr\u00eda acostumbrarse tanto a salirse con la suya y a lograr que consientas, que en el momento en que no lo hagas se indignen. Esto es porque est\u00e1n tan acostumbrados a que te rindas ... y, en algunos casos, cedas, que ahora se sienten con derecho. Si actualmente est\u00e1s pasando por esto, debes saber que no est\u00e1s solo. Recientemente, aprend\u00ed esta dolorosa lecci\u00f3n, pero soy una persona m\u00e1s sabia y s\u00e9 que afuerzas\u2026 no volver\u00e1 a sucede.<\/p>\n<p>Aprend\u00ed que est\u00e1 bien ser una buena persona, siempre y cuando tengas l\u00edmites, te honres y te sientas c\u00f3modo con la idea de decir que no cuando lo necesitas. Usa mi mentalidad y creo que te encontrar\u00e1s en una situaci\u00f3n mucho mejor.<\/p>\n<p>Ok, amigos ... \u00a1espero que tengan un gran d\u00eda! Si te gust\u00f3 mi video no te olvides de darle un \"me gusta\" a este video y nos vemos pronto.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Is There Such a Thing As Being Too Nice? Is there such a thing a s being too nice? \u00a0Yes\u2026Only if you are so accommodating, patient, giving and understanding to the point where you ended up getting hurt or put in a bad situation. \u00a0Especially if you have the tendency of being so accommodating 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