{"id":14361,"date":"2019-02-17T13:38:01","date_gmt":"2019-02-17T21:38:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sashacarrion.com\/?p=14361"},"modified":"2022-05-03T09:12:55","modified_gmt":"2022-05-03T16:12:55","slug":"family-romantic-relationships-being-critical-vs-being-empathetic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/2019\/02\/17\/family-romantic-relationships-being-critical-vs-being-empathetic\/","title":{"rendered":"Familia y Relaciones Amorosas: Criticar vs Empatizar"},"content":{"rendered":"<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div class=\"ast-oembed-container\" style=\"height: 100%;\"><iframe title=\"Cuando Tu Familia Te Juzga y Critica Constantemente\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/DUwpHEUVlks?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Relaciones familiares y rom\u00e1nticas: ser cr\u00edtico frente a ser emp\u00e1tico<\/p>\n<p class=\"western\">Hace no mucho tiempo lleg\u00f3 a la oficina una mujer que me dijo que sent\u00eda que su familia siempre la criticaba. Por lo general es porque ella y sus hijas no pasan mucho tiempo con los dem\u00e1s. Y eso incluye con su propia madre.\nCuando uno escucha eso, de primera impresi\u00f3n uno puede pensar que es una mala hija pero cuando te enteras de que todo lo que tuvo que vivir de ni\u00f1a fue a causa de las decisiones de su madre puedes comprender el porqu\u00e9 de su manera de comportarse. Lamentablemente esto la pone en una situaci\u00f3n en la que la hace sentir como una persona marginada.<\/p>\n<p class=\"western\">Tambi\u00e9n ella me dijo que si algo le va mal su familia tiende a pensar lo peor en lugar de darle el beneficio de la duda. Parte de el problema es que sus familiares no pueden sentir comprensi\u00f3n y empat\u00eda por ella, es m\u00e1s f\u00e1cil solo criticarla. Eso solamente le crea m\u00e1s dolor a ella. Por eso es importante que cuando un ser querido no haga las cosas como t\u00fa piensas que est\u00e1 bien, que tomes un momento para hablar con esa persona y averigua qu\u00e9 es lo que est\u00e1 pasando. En ese momento es importante que no te enfoques en hacer que esa persona se sienta que est\u00e1 mal y hacer que se sientan culpable. Mejor enf\u00f3cate en entender lo que te est\u00e1n diciendo.\nAseg\u00farate de que ser capaz de respetar sus sentimientos. Ponte en su lugar y aseg\u00farate de ser comprensivo. Trabaja para ayudarle a salir de ese espacio mental y sigue siendo lo m\u00e1s emp\u00e1tico y amoroso que puedas ser. Esa es la \u00fanica manera en la que puedes ayudar a sanar a un ser querido y lograr que se forme esa relaci\u00f3n que siempre has querido tener. No importa si las cosas tienen a\u00f1os mal, hoy es el momento de comenzar a sanar y hacer de tal manera que todos estemos el uno para el otro - no solamente en t\u00edtulo como familia o ser querido pero en realidad.<\/p>\n<p class=\"western\">Si te gusta este mensaje, no dudes en darle a Me gusta a este video y espero volver a chatear contigo pronto.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Family &amp; Romantic Relationships: Being Critical vs \u00a0Being Empathetic Not too long ago, I had a woman come in who told me that she often feels like she\u2019s being criticized by her family. Usually, it\u2019s because her and her daughters don\u2019t spend much time with everybody else. That includes with her own mother. 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