{"id":18635,"date":"2021-03-04T15:23:27","date_gmt":"2021-03-04T23:23:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/?p=18635"},"modified":"2021-10-07T23:42:50","modified_gmt":"2021-10-08T06:42:50","slug":"dont-fall-in-love-stupidly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/es\/2021\/03\/04\/dont-fall-in-love-stupidly\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cNo te enamores est\u00fapidamente\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<div style=\"width: 640px;\" class=\"wp-video\"><!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('video');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<video class=\"wp-video-shortcode\" id=\"video-18635-1\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" preload=\"metadata\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"video\/mp4\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/vid17.mp4?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/vid17.mp4\">https:\/\/www.sashacarrion.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/vid17.mp4<\/a><\/video><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The funny statement of \u201cDon\u2019t fall in love stupidly\u201d (No se enamoren a lo pendejo) was actually one of my Puerto Rican grandmother\u2019s most memorable pieces of\u00a0<a class=\" xil3i\" tabindex=\"0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/explore\/tags\/advice\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">#advice<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>My grandmother was referring to the fact that often times, people overlook the damage that their significant others are doing to them, be it (emotionally\/verbal abuse or controlling.)<\/p>\n<p>Even in love, you must be smart. There are some things that you can\u2019t let a person get way with.<\/p>\n<p>In my experience, the moment a person gets used to treating you badly. that\u2019s going to continue. They realize that they are in control and they aren\u2019t about to give that up.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s only people who really want to change that really change. And if that\u2019s not the case, make sure that you choose to do what\u2019s right for you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; The funny statement of \u201cDon\u2019t fall in love stupidly\u201d (No se enamoren a lo pendejo) was actually one of my Puerto Rican grandmother\u2019s most memorable pieces of\u00a0#advice. My grandmother was referring to the fact that often times, people overlook the damage that their significant others are doing to them, be it (emotionally\/verbal abuse or 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