It’s Not Easy Being a Single Mom, Healer & Entrepreneur
Hi, Sasha here, let me tell you that I feel totally lucky to be doing this video right now, reason being is that my little baby boy, he’s years old, he’s getting close to being , he’s actually knocked out taking his nap and it was not an easy thing to do. I literally spent about an hour and a half trying to get him to go down and I’ll be totally honest with you, this mom thing has been a lot rougher than what I thought it was gonna be. I thought this was gonna be an easier thing, I mean I see all kinds of people with four or five kids and I look at them and I think how do they do it, for me to have one I thought yeah I’ve got this in the bag, this is gonna be easy, but it hasn’t been, it’s been rough at the beginning of my son’s life, he suffered from severe colic and for the first six months it was constant crying and it was just brutal for me and what’s rough is that I am very committed to the work I do, so juggling being a mom and doing my work and helping people, on not only an individual scale but on a larger scale, has just been has been rough because everything has taken me much longer than what I thought it was gonna take.
Being a single mom that is an entrepreneur and a healer is like instead of going from A to point B and going directly, when you’re a mom you go from like C and then B or something pops up, it’s not linear. I’ll give you an example, there are times where I’ve gotten everything ready and it already took forever to get everything going, to get him to brush his teeth, to do all the stuff that needs to be done, make it sot hat he’s not hurting himself by accident. Well, I’m getting ready and then and then all of a sudden we’re already like out the door and we got to go back in, we got to change that diaper and so it’s been it’s been quite a bit of work. I realized that I could have put my career on hold, put it on pause for a bit, but I didn’t have that in my heart just because I love what I do and I know this is exactly what I’m supposed to do, there are no ifs and or buts about it. When I go about my day to day life with my son I have to remind myself to be patient with myself and remind myself that I’m doing my best and that it’s all gonna work out and it’s all gonna be okay.
Jut keep moving forward and keep doing the stuff that I need to do for myself and for him. I realized that the more I succeed in all of my endeavors and helping people on a larger scale, the better mom I’m going to be, the better example I’m gonna be for him as he gets older so the way I see it it’s actually a positive for me, to continue doing all the work that I do and continue investing my time and just continue juggling everything. Sometimes I feel like an octopus, I feels like I need like eight arms to be able to do it, get everything done, but I accept it, it is what it is this is, the path that I’ve chosen. I keep moving forward no matter what.
I hope you’re having a wonderful day, we got through this video without him waking up in the middle of it, so I feel blessed and I feel grateful for this little bit of time that I’ve had with you.
I hope you’re having a wonderful day and as usual I look forward to chatting with you again soon. Thank you so much. Bye for now. I get a little bit of help here and there but it feels like if sometimes, it feels as though um it’s just not enough no,
If you have kids you get it or if you’re around kids then you definitely get it. Bye for now.
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