If you have been in a number of relationships or marriages that have ended badly, it may be time to take a deeper look to address the root causes of your relationship troubles. Hypnosis helps you by giving you access to those parts of your mind that would normally remain hidden from your consciousness. It is here where old habits, patterns and emotions reside. Whether we realize it or not, our minds refer to the past every time we are in a new situation to see how we’ve dealt in that situation. If it finds a negative program, there will be a tendency to want to replay it unless you change that programming by using a powerful tool such as Hypnosis.
Hypnosis is a natural state that in a therapeutic setting is very relaxing. Unlike the silliness of stage shows, you are totally conscious; in fact you have heightened awareness and your mind is always in control. During a hypnosis session, you are able to take on new suggestions and use your own imagination to create a new positive program that will replace the one from your past.
Oftentimes, relationship-related behavioral patterns have their root in our childhood memories of how our parents interacted with each other. After all, the relationship between a mother and father is most often a person’s first glimpse into the world of relationships and love. Even though your parents may have had a good relationship overall, there may be areas where they did not deal well with each other. As an adult, you may find yourself mirroring this behavior in your own relationships.
Sabotaging To Avoid Pain
In some cases, you may find yourself doing the exact opposite of what they did. Let’s say your father repeatedly cheated on your mother and she was consistently mistreated. Your mind may have learned to avoid the pain that your mother went thru, so you develop a habit of withdrawing from a partner whenever you feel insecure about whether he loves you or not. In essence you are creating another extreme which then leads you to disappointment.
People who had parents with very dysfunctional relationships may find themselves sabotaging potential relationships because their subconscious mind is expecting that relationship, like her parents’, to be a source of pain. Behavioral patterns can become so ingrained that without thinking of them, you react to certain triggers. Through the use of specific hypnotic techniques, you can break free from negative conditioning.
Through the use of hypnosis, you may become aware of why you had been attracted to certain types of people who may have not been the best match for you. By being able to clearly see such a pattern and by inputting into your mind what you want it to do, you are able to avoid future potential disasters. Instead, you are able to think and behave in ways that are conducive to being happy and healthy. This means that even if the same previously problematic trigger presents itself, you will behave the way you want to as opposed to how you were taught to.
While hypnosis cannot guarantee romantic success, it can help you to get to a place where you have increased chances of being able to be in a healthy relationship.