I’ll be happy when. . .
I have a significant other
I weigh 15 lbs less
I reach a particular career goal
Sound familiar? This is the stuff that I regularly hear. Our minds are good at creating parameters that only box us in. Instead of doing that to yourself, choose to be happy right now. Happiness is a choice in the same way that seeing a glass half full or half empty is a choice. Choose to be confident right now. You don’t need reasons to have a good self-confidence. Confidence isn’t something that’s contingent on anybody else but you. So you see, in both cases, it’s all up to you.
Just a little bit of common sense to rattle those pesky limiting beliefs out of your mind. : )